Given the present circumstances dictated by Covid 19 I only meet counselling requests via video calls. The majority of my work focus on singles and couples having relationship issues and psychosexual problems regarding intimacy.
Being married myself in long term relationship with children I know how often a relationship goes through cyclical periods and we all have to face crisis, bereavements well as joyful and unpleasant moments. Our individual journey impact on our partner and we cannot take things for granted. We all have to renew our trust and commitment in order to connect emotionally. Being in a relationship you learn to explore yourself, your feelings, your family history.
You will discover the multiple parts which constitute who you are as a person and what makes you to see the world in the unique way you do and sometimes does. Each part has a personality, a way of being, its emotions and a reason for being there and 'create' with other parts who you are.
Some parts are more dominants then others, some others are hidden and very shy, some are unknown in a shadow. Our life experiences are stored inside us in multiple levels of meaning and they determined and shape who we are, how we see and perceive ourselves, how others see and perceive us, and how we relate with each other and as a couple.
There is always an invisible baggage we carry in our intimate relationship which is our family of origin history and unique way to relate which unconsciously becomes the model and the basis of future relationships. To discover the template enable partners to change their approach to each other.
